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Marriage Certificates......KEY ELEMENT

We all know that no wedding can take place without a marriage certificate. In Mecklenburg County, any bride can obtain this as early/ late as 90 days prior to the wedding date. You and the fiance have to arrive at the County office (near the court house) and sign paperwork TOGETHER, take an oath, and ofcourse.... make payment! LOL!

Don't delay your wedding for lack of receiving the necessary documents needed....

http://www.weddingvendors.com/marriage-license-laws/united-states/north-carolina/

Happy Planning

Its Been A While....

Well, its been a while and guess why.... I AM PREGNANT! I am so excited to be expecting my 2nd child w/ my loving husband! Hopefully, its a lil' girl that will one day take on the task of Bridal Oasis.....

As it relates to weddings, we had the Indian wedding on the 11th of July! What a way to party.... Shout out to Zen and her new hubby on a Indian Wonderland! Burgundy and Gold will never be the same again in Bridal Oasis' wedding history!

New weddings approaching and new possibilities. The outlook is endless and we are excited for the ride!

Happy Planning!

Romeo/ Juliet Themed Wedding

I just got off the phone with a new bride. She is having a Romeo/ Juliet themed wedding. How romantic right.... :-)
Well, she is wearing an exclusive silhouette w/ a cathedral veil. All guests are wearing medieval themed attire and the decor will be shipped in from Italy. The colors of the weddings are red, black, and ivory.
I can't believe how her creativity is really shining for this Nov. 2010 wedding. Bridal Oasis is super excited about how weddings are evolving and becoming more and more creative.
Congrats to all brides... may your creativity shine among many!

Happy Planning...

Groom's Role?

I love to hear from my brides as far as their future husbands and their planning goes... How well do they participate in the wedding process? Many times the groom is the "bride" in the wedding process. Any role your future hubby chooses to participate, let us know. We love to hear the funny stories about how they scared away the caterer or how they made the photographer feel as though they can't take pics! Let us know how your future hubby fits in his role! :-)

Happy Planning.....

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Cultural Weddings..... so much fun!

Bridal Oasis is moving to the next level in terms of weddings and parties. Next month, we will host our first marriage ceremony for a couple from Pakistan. We are excited to learn various ways that different cultures are celebrating their love!

Bridal Oasis has also host other cultures in celebrating various events.... African weddings, Bar Mitzva Parties, Sweet Sixteen Celebrations, and so many others...

Our culturally diverse services can fit any custom, beliefs, and rituals. We will be pleased to provide coordination of your event!

Happy Planning!

Thanks Brides....

We are so happy to plan so many weddings this year. When my husband gave me the idea to open my business, I was really hesistant about getting so upclose and personal with something as intimate as a wedding... then, I realized that if I paid so much attention to my own, people that I did not know... on theknot.com and other sites, then SURELY I could plan wedding for a living. I am so thankful to not have a "job," but a CAREER! I love what I do and especially how I do it. Thanks to all of our brides!

Happy Belated Mother's Day

....what a weekend. It was a joy to see my family, spend time with my son, and enjoy the weekend and reflect on what makes me feel so ALIVE. It was my first Mother's Day and very special. I was able to go home to be w/ my mom, handle some weddings that are upcoming, and enjoy some good food. It gets NO BETTER THAN THAT! I hope that each mother was able to celebrate and enjoy their speical day as much as I did. Happy Planning!

Tomorrow is my B-DAY!

Tomorrow is my b-day! I can't believe that its just here with a BLINK OF AN EYE! The last I checked... it was January and I gave birth to the BEST BABY EVER.... my son! Now, its May and "Bridal Christmas" is underway! For the most part, I don't know what's going to happen this weekend... as it is also my first Mother's Day, but I know that my family will make it special. I have the world's best husband and I am sure that he has this planned out.... :-)

It so wonderful to get "personal" every now and again on this blog. I love weddings, I love planning parties, but above all... I love my FAMILY!

Happy Blogging.....

Bridal Oasis is Giving Back!

I have really been trying to find a creative way to "give back" into the community. I have really BIG dreams of charity marathons, charity dinners, and all of these other events that can bring millions of dollars into the lives of those that can benfit from it. I have narrowed my search for a perfect event down to.... donating wedding dresses.
My mom always said that you have to "lead by example." With this being said, I am currently working with a charity organization.... donating gently used wedding dresses to those that are in need.
If you would like to help out or know someone that is not using their wedding dress, contact me! Join us in our efforts of giving back! :-)

Wedding Planning 101

Planning a wedding can be a monumental task, with many different aspects that will require a great deal of your time and energy to organise. When you begin to plan your wedding it is best if you draw an outline of the things you will need to do, and there are many wedding books and website that can advise you on this.

Firstly, before you start your plan you will need to think about your budget. Be realistic, both in terms of what you can afford and what you will need to spend to make your wedding a special day. Weddings are expensive, even the very minimal ones, so don’t budget too low. If you set yourself a realistic target now, you will be able to save up accordingly, or if you are borrowing money for this event it will save you having to borrow anymore if this amount runs out. Once you have set a sensible budget, don’t get carried away in the romance of the moment, and stick to it ruthlessly. Bargain over ever last detail, and take time to shop around for deals.
Here are a few steps that you will need to cover, to begin your wedding plan:
Step 1: Ceremony
Once you have decided to get married, think about whether you would like a civil or religious ceremony. If you decide on a civil ceremony think about where you would like it to take place, either the registrars office or a licensed venue. Once you have decided all these details phone the relevant place and provisionally book the service (you can only normally book these services 12 months in advance). Ask what legal requirements you will need to organise before the wedding, such as residency issues and documents (birth certificate etc). Now you have the provisional date you can start organising other the aspects.
Step 2: Guest List
Consider your budget carefully, and make a draft guest list. Remember the more people you invite, the more you will need to spend on the food and venue.
Step 3: Wedding Planner
Be realistic about how much time you can devote to planning your wedding, and think about booking a professional wedding planner, who will be able to oversee the whole wedding process on your behalf. A good wedding planner will pay for themselves, as they will be able to maximise your budget for you, and stop you from spending more than you intended.
Step 4: Venue
If you want the ceremony in a licensed venue, book this in conjunction with the registrar, as there is no point booking one if the other is not available! If you are just selecting a reception venue you can take a bit more time to look around, but as these places will be limited on how many weddings they can cater for each day, book at least 6 months in advance so that you will not be disappointed. Keep in mind the guest list when you are selecting a venue, so that you can comfortable accommodated everyone.
Step 5: Catering
The venue you choose may provide catering, but if you are having the wedding in a hall or marquee you may need to organise this yourself. Ask around for recommendations, or if you are booking a caterer out of the telephone directory ask them to provide references, or at least samples of their menus for you to try. You will need to confirm your chosen catering booking at least 6 months before the wedding to avoid disappointment.
Step 6: Photography
If you are on a very tight budget ask around your friends or relatives to see if any of them are interested in photography, and would have the skills and equipment to provide the photographs for your big day. As these will be the main keepsakes from your wedding, you may want to splash out on a professional photographer, so as with the catering ask around for recommendations, or request references and portfolios before you book someone. Also make sure you sort this out as soon as possible and get a booking confirmation in writing.

~courtesy of The Wedding Expert

Bridal Showcase...

We are now less than 4 months away from Charlotte's Bridal Showcase located uptown at the Charlotte Convention Center. This is a great place where brides and grooms can meet various vendors in this industry. Bridal Oasis of Charlotte will be on post with various brochures, package specials, and drawings for brides. If you know anyone getting married in the NC or SC area, have them contact us today! We are looking to fill the month of September and November. Only 7 more spots are available for the year! We are booking fast.....

~Special: 25% off of your save-the-date cards, invitations, and thank you cards!

Why a Wedding Planner is Needed....

1.) Our mission: To provide you with stress-free planning. We come into your home/ office to conduct all of our initial business. Why settle for the already BUSY schedule that you have: meeting with a planner or his/ her timeframe/ deadlines. We meet with you in the one space where you most comfortable. If you do not desire to meet with us in your home or at your office, we will meet where you feel the least stressed to ensure that your mind is on planning and nothing else!

2.) We desire an excellent event- one that everyone in your circle will talk about for a LIFETIME! You only hope to marry once... Your daughter will only turn 16 once..... Your parents' 50th Anniversary comes ONCE! Let us take your plans and execute them in a way that is pleasing you all parties involved!

3.) Its our passion to plan. Our staff is comprised with a Prinicpal Wedding Planner and other Assistants that are more than willing to transform your dreams to reality. We love what we do and we are the BEST in the business.

We can name several more reasons why Wedding/ Event Planners are needed. When you have to plan an event and get ready for the actual event- its a lot for one person to accomplish. A planner is needed and guess what..... we are waiting to plan your next BIG event!

We are only a phone call or email away! Contact us today!

Today's Surprise.... RETAIL SPACE!

Wow! Bridal Oasis is taking South Charlotte by storm.... quietly, but definitely by surprise. I am amazed how we have transformed our business to now offering bridal gowns, bridal party attire, and even prom essentials! We are counting our blessings at Bridal Oasis of Charlotte. With 5 strong assistants at my side, we are taking a new perspective on the wedding industry!

If you or someone you know is looking for a wedding planner, refer us! We pride ourselves on coming into your home or meeting at your office to conduct all of the details concerning your wedding celebration. Even after the grand opening of Bridal Oasis- Charlotte location, we will still meet w/ brides in the home or office. Comfort is important for us at Bridal Oasis.....

Stay tuned for pics of our new location.

Welcome Bloggers~

Hello!
We are finishing up the final stages of our web marketing! Bridal Oasis of Charlotte will soon have its website up and running! We are excited about the new things that are happening so FAST for Bridal Oasis of Charlotte. We are planning several weddings in Charlotte, surrounding NC areas, as well as in SC! Bridal Christmas is underway and we are ready to hit the summer RUNNING!

If you have an event- wedding, bridal shower, anniversary party, birthday party, baby shower, and/ or etc., contact us so that we can assist you in your planning. Why direct your party? Our mission is to provide you with a stress-free environment no matter the event!

Contact us today for referral discounts and other sales.......

Need invitations or party/ wedding accessories? Contact us for a wide variety of items for all budgets!